How To Stop Self Rejection Starting Now

The key to how to stop self rejection is summed up in the following sentence:

“That’s no big deal, I’m here now anyway.”

Let me explain…

Of course I don’t know exactly what goals each of us have, but I’m confident that they will require us to go through some difficult doors, make some difficult calls, or have some difficult conversations.

All of those scenarios have one thing in common which could prevent us from accomplishing our goals: rejection. It’s very important to notice exactly who is doing the rejecting.

Is the rejecting being done by the person on the other side of the door, or on the other end of the phone, or is it the person we’re talking with directly who’s doing the rejecting?

We all need to ask ourselves: ‘Who exactly is rejecting me?’ Is it really any of those outside people, or is the person who’s rejecting us; US?

What I mean by that is; have you ever wanted to pull open that door, or make that call, or have that conversation towards your goals, but just rationalized it away because you didn’t want to deal with the possible rejection?

Most of us have done exactly that, many times. I know I have as well, but then I figured out the one critical sentence to end it all. The critical sentence is; “That’s no big deal, I’m here now anyway.”

Let’s imagine we’re nervously standing in a hallway looking at an office door we need to enter because the path to our goals leads through it.

Here’s the dialog we must run through our heads at that exact moment when we’re attempting to stop self rejection.

“Where am I exactly?

I’m out in the hallway.

Where do I really want to be?

I want to be on the other side of this door.

What could happen if I knock and go inside?

I could be rejected and thrown back into the hall.

That’s no big deal, I’m here now anyway.”

That’s the key to how to stop self rejection. It’s all about realizing we truly have nothing to lose.

If we’re in the hallway anyway, and then get thrown back out into the hallway after entering the office, who cares?

We didn’t really lose anything. We’re just back to where we started, and now we’re much wiser for having gone through the process.

This works for everything.

If we ask someone out on a date and they say no:

“That’s no big deal, I’m here now anyway.”

If we request a lower price on a house, or a car, and they say no:

“That’s no big deal, I’m here now anyway.”

If we go on an audition and they decide to hire someone else:

“That’s no big deal, I’m here now anyway.”

That one sentence gives us all the strength. All we need to do beforehand is:

STOP REJECTING OURSELVES – LET THE OTHER PERSON DO THAT.

STOP REJECTING OURSELVES – LET THE OTHER PERSON DO THAT.

STOP REJECTING OURSELVES – LET THE OTHER PERSON DO THAT.

After all, even if they say no – “That’s no big deal, I’m here now anyway.”

Plus, there’s a very good chance that they will say YES.

That’s ultimately how to stop self rejection while further tapping into our inborn power.

This will bring us closer to living as the most complete version of ourselves immediately.

How To Stop Self Rejection Starting Now
– Written by Motivational Joe X